Trying to get fit and stay sane…

I've been working out for about a year. I have three levels of torn discs and effed up feet from birth defects and being fat. I've lost thirty pounds in the last year by using a recumbent stepper. Today, I thought I'd mix it up. I'm a little less heavy and a lot stronger so … Continue reading Trying to get fit and stay sane…

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To the woman private messaging my husband..

I get that you dated him for five whole weeks THIRTY years ago and that he somehow broke your heart. High school is like that. But marriage is hard enough without people like you inserting themselves in to the equation. Add to it that we deal with catastrophic injuries, PTSD, TBI, cognitive disabilities and all … Continue reading To the woman private messaging my husband..

I thought That I needed to Change…

It's funny, I've gone several different directions with this blog over the years. As a wounded warrior's wife, why I stay, after wife... Each time I changed tack I felt that I had to "hide" the previous part of the journey because it wasn't relevant. Today, I realized that it is *all* relevant. The good, … Continue reading I thought That I needed to Change…

Let’s start at the beginning.

Tonight I decided to change tack on my blogging. You see, I've written a blog as the wife/caregiver of a catastrophically wounded Veteran. Sadly, I felt like my posts tended to be negative. I didn't intend to be negative, I just was. So as I sat here tonight, by myself, I thought, "He always asks … Continue reading Let’s start at the beginning.